Okay, confession time. Today I’m feeling lousy. Yesterday the littlest pink COG spent the day spewing on my new carpet (and a pile of just washed socks waiting to be paired) and today I’m feeling lousy. So here I sit on my couch watching day time TV while my little one lies on the other couch sleeping it off. Without intending to sound like some type of princess perfect pants mummy (coz you know I’m not) I don’t watch much day time TV these days. I will however, occasionally watch The Circle while folding washing, coz it’s one of my least favourite houseworky jobs, and the show is funny and friendly.
So that’s what I turned on this morning after dropping the big girls at school in their odd socks. The first thing I heard them talking about was the fall-out from Chrissy Swan’s column about her sons weight and interview in the Woman’s Weekly. Now I’m a self-confessed Chrissy fan. I love her personality and her individual approach to life and yes I desperately wanted her to win Big Brother all those years back! Chrissy it seems has coped a lot of flack on social media sites and her Circle Sisters were putting a bit of support and love her way. And well they should!
I never cease to be amazed how cruel mothers can be to each other, especially when we can hide behind the anonymous-ness of a smiling baby profile picture. Good golly miss molly – the women was actually confessing to the world that she had made some mistakes. I shake my head in disbelief that people hammered her for knowing what she’s done and being humble and self-assured enough to talk about it. And frankly, even if she didn’t, let she who is without mothering fault cast the first accusation! Maybe it just makes us feel better about our own failures when we can point and shun another mum. For my part I think the world needs more people like Chrissy. She’s bold and has opinions. She’s doesn’t appear limited by what people think and she’s not afraid to put the ‘real’ stuff out there. I may not always agree with her but I truly love her spunk and think those mums who laid their critical comments on her should take a good hard look at themselves. Motherhood would be a much easier gig if we could drop the judgement! That, along with the fact that Dr Phil is much more sensationalist than I remember him being, is the sum of my revelations from my morning spent watching day time TV.
This post is brought to you by the gastro bug and all typos and general complaints should be directed back to him in writing.
You can read more about the Chrissy Swan issue here.

















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I still dont get why people have to put others down? Why cant us parents all be supportive of each other?
After all being a parent is damn hard work in itself….let alone having to think about the other people (Mums) thoughts around us??
I think it suxs big time that Mums have a go at another Mum. Forget the stuff that doesnt matter, and show some kindness. Surely it would make everyone feel better? And a bit of love goes a long way.
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Sorry that would be *her* and Umi Steynes. Proof read first Julie!
Oh Caz, I love Chrissy too. She is funny and intelligent and does seem like a very kind person. And a great Mama to boot!
I listen to her every day between 3-4pm on mix 106.5 here in Sydney. It’s called the 3pm pickup. Here and Umi Steynes are very good.
Anyway, I was really saddened to hear about the crap she received about her gorgeous little boy. I actually saw that article over the weekend and felt nothing but admiration for her.
Then she was on the radio this morning talking about the nasty comments… it was the first I heard of it… not being a twitter follower or anything like that.
People are unkind… and unfortunately it’s often women against women. Very sad.
Hope you and your littlest pink are feeling much better soon. Nothing worse than a gastro bug xoxo
I have never been judged more since becoming a mother and the quickest to judge are mothers too. Strange, isn’t it? I won’t say I’m not guilty of a little judging of others myself…. how could any of us!
I hope you’re feeling better soon.
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Chrissy is a beautiful real woman…with a healthy real family…why so much bitchin in the world!!
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Hear, hear! Us women can be our worse enemies..
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I am so with you on this…
I don’t watch day time TV (or much night time TV for that matter) nor do I read Chrissy’s column, but I listen to a few minutes of her morning radio show on the way to school … and that is how I know her, and you know what… while some of our parenting ideas may be poles apart, while I cringe at the thought of Big Brother…. despite all those things I quite like Chrissy. I like that she stands up out there in the big bad world of mainstream media and is who she is…. it gives me courage to be who I am on my little back-water blog.
So more power to people like Chrissy I say.
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